Excluding people

Why is it if you have great news you only tell some of your best friends? I mean come on don't you think the others will find out eventually, and when they do don't you think they will either be pissed off or hurt you didn't tell them? People come on use your brains!! If you have news that you think is important enought to tell your friends, make sure you tell all of them. For example if you start dating someone that you've been talking to for a while and you tell one of your best friends but not the other, it might come back to bite you in the ass! If you want to keep your personal life to yourself then that's fine, just make sure you do. Saying that you wanted to keep it to yourself, but telling like 2 of your other best friends isn't exactly on the same page. I'm just saying that you should really think about who you're going to tell before you tell anybody. This is so that you don't hurt somebody's feelings in the process of getting your information out into the world. So if you know that this so-called friend of your's who you didn't tell the information to is going to find out real soon, you should definately make sure that you're the one who tells them. Or just let them know that they really aren't one of your best friends and this will never be a problem again.